This idea that military or celebratory events like this are somehow bad is very strange and not part of our or any nations cultural history.
It is imperative that any nation that wishes to survive must consciously attend to their history as a whole. Military parades or celebrations of important national history are normal and necessary for a nation to remember who they are as a whole.
To dismiss them off hand as somehow being the tools of a totalitarian. Actually runs against the nations interests.
Now can they be used as tools of a totalitarian, yes absolutely.
But the reality is that celebrations like this can be used by healthy governments and unhealthy governments.
So is that what we’re seeing today.
No I don’t think so, I believe that President Trump appreciates the necessity for the nation to have and maintain a strong defense. Not to use it recklessly but as a discouragement for others to try us. Look at how reluctant he has been to engage militarily regarding Iran or Ukraine. He wants a strong military but he also only wants to use it very cautiously.
What we “feel” should not be the determiner of our actions.
In peace prepare for war, in war prepare for peace. The art of war is of vital importance to the state. It is matter of life and death, a road either to safety or to ruin. Hence under no circumstances can it be neglected.
Sun Tzu
So celebrating and inspiring the nation to peace through strength seems to me to be a perfectly logical thing to try and do.