Once the nuclear can is opened, it is not going to stop there,
against a nuclear/tech peer. Anyone saying otherwise is a delusional lunatic. If they truly believe a nuclear war can be limited then they are truly psychopathic and don't truly understand the gravity of such a decision or the gravity of such a decision on their own life nonetheless.
Once a nuclear weapon is used in a conflict against another nuclear peer, the probability that it remains “limited” drops into absolute and total fucking fantasy territory. At that point, you are no longer playing brinkmanship. Brinkmanship is the threat. Actual nuclear use is the endgame starting.
I do not understand how people convince themselves it would stop at one or two strikes. That is Hollywood bullshit. That is not strategy.
That is a bedtime story for people who want to feel intellectually brave without staring at the consequences. Or more bluntly people who want to lie to themselves to feel better.
You cannot “win” a nuclear conflict against another nuclear peer in any meaningful sense.
You can survive pieces of it. You can destroy enough of the other side to call it revenge. You can maybe preserve some broken version of national continuity. But victory?
No. Again anyone saying otherwise is a fucking lunatic who needs to be stopped by any and all means necessary within the law of course! That word stops meaning anything once cities, command nodes, satellites, submarines, missile fields, airbases, ports, and civilian populations enter the exchange. PERIOD.
A “limited” nuclear strike staying limited is about as real as the Land of Oz or the Yellow Brick Road. The idea exists. It is just not reality!!!



The deeper danger is not only the weapon itself.
It is the growing belief among the public, commentators, and politicians that nuclear war can be managed, contained, calibrated, or won. They're all fucking idiots.

That belief is how you eventually get full scale nuclear war.
Not because everyone wanted the end of the world, but because enough people convinced themselves the first step would be controllable.
Modern peer on peer war does not give leaders clean, calm, rational decision windows. It gives them minutes, maybe seconds, under uncertainty.

Incoming missile. Is it conventional? Is it nuclear? Is it a decapitation strike? Is this the first wave? Are our forces about to be blinded? Are our weapons about to be lost? That is not a sane environment for controlled escalation. That is a pressure cooker wired to a dead man’s switch.
So no, I DO NOT BUY THE FANTASY that a nuclear exchange between peers stays neatly limited because some honest to God
retarded think tank map says it does.

Once nuclear use begins between nuclear peers, escalation control becomes a
PURE theory trying to outrun physics, fear, automation, command breakdown, and human panic. Good luck with that.
The most dangerous part is not simply that nuclear weapons exist. The most dangerous part is the growing STRAIGHT UP
delusion that they can be used carefully, politically, and successfully.
That is not deterrence thinking.
That is: Darwin Award strategy with a national flag pinned to it.